1. The boy you date asks you to “hang out,” which involves less commitment than a date. He wants to have fun with no strings attached.
2. The man you marry asks you out on dates and is clear about his intentions with you. He wants to be with you and wants you to know where you’re headed.
3. The boy you date talks with you about people you know from your past, or pokes fun at that guy at the bar, or only shares funny stories because he can’t connect on a deeper level.
4. The man you marry can hold a conversation with you about books, movies, music, and other common interests. This makes for a more substantial relationship in the long run.
5. The man you marry can handle your attitude and talk you down from a ledge. This is especially important when you have major life crises or a bad day at work.
6. The boy you date calls you mean and immature names to make himself feel like a winner.
7. The man you marry fights fairly. He doesn’t call you names or use physical force, no matter how angry he gets.
8. The boy you date cares "too" much about looks, and will tease you for looking sloppy until you fix yourself back up to his standards.
9. The man you marry understands that everyone has good and bad days as far as looks go, and won’t hurt your feelings or love you less if your weight fluctuates or you have a bad hair day or forget to shave for awhile.
10. The boy you date will expect to have things done for him because that’s what his mom did, and that’s what other girls have done for him, and he doesn’t have to take care of himself.
11. The man you marry will know how to take care of himself: how to cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills, and more–because he’s already a man. It’s important for people to have this figured out before they’re ready to marry, which is a great way to tell what type your guy is.
12. The boy you date doesn’t want to meet your friends and family because he just wants to be alone with you all of the time.
13. The man you marry wants to hear stories about your friends and family until he can meet them and get to know them himself, Lifehack tells us.
14. The boy you date well, you’re too embarrassed to take him to meet your parents, not that he’d ever bring it up himself.
15. The man you marry wants to meet your parents, and impresses them when he does.
16. The boy you date is always the one you fantasize about marrying, because he’s cute and all you do is have fun together (until the first big blow-up…).
17. The man you marry is never a sure thing. You hem and haw over if he’s right, if you should settle down with him, if your relationship can make it long term.
18. The boy you date doesn’t listen to you or fully engage in conversations. He nods while you talk, then changes the subject or just tells you what you want to hear.
19. The man you marry cares about what you have to say. He wants to know your thoughts and opinions on anything from major issues to tiny moments from your day.
20. The boy you date runs at the first sign of trouble because it’s too much drama for him, and he doesn’t want anything tying him down.
21. The man you marry sticks with you through tough times because he’s committed to you and the relationship, and wants to see it through to the end.
22. The man you marry pays when he takes you out, even after you grab the check and insist five times that it’s your turn to pay.
23. The boy you date never gives you security. You don’t know how he feels or what he’s up to when he’s not with you, and your friends might even have money riding on how long you’ll last.
24. The man you marry will make you feel secure. You’ll always know he loves you, you’ll be able to trust him, and you’ll know that you two can make it through anything.
Finally, you need God's direction to find the right person cus' we have alot of woff in sheep's clothing...you can take that to the bank.
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